Women crave romance, there is no denying that. They want to know that their partner cares for and is there for them, no matter the circumstance. And as their partner, it is up to you to not treat them like they’re some mere escort. You need to let them know that you do care about them, and shower them with your affection and love. However, love needs no huge spectacle or extravagant acts for it to be felt; as a matter of fact, it’s through small gestures that women feel your passion and dedication the most. Here are some examples that you can apply in your daily life.
Knowing and understanding you and your partner’s love language – the ways you communicate and accept love – is important to foster a romantic and healthy relationship. Physical contact is one of these love languages; hugging, kissing, or holding hands with your lover won’t be the same as doing it with someone else (such as an escort). Physical contact indicates strong intimacy and trust between the two of you, and is one of the best ways you can reaffirm your love to them.
Receiving gifts is another kind of love language. Some women feel that receiving gifts – be it flowers, chocolates, or any other meaningful item – is the most romantic thing ever. For them, it’s proof that their partner thinks about them constantly, consciously looking for what they would want. Even something simple as a surprise letter by their desk saying “I love you” is good enough, and can be what reignites the fire you both had during your first few dates.
A lot of men hold back on their emotions, due in part to being conditioned to believe that being emotional is not “manly”. As a consequence however, their wives cannot connect to them on a deeper level, and their love fails to be romantic as a result. It can be difficult to bring your walls down, but being vulnerable around your partner shows that you trust them, and they in turn will trust you. Do not be afraid to talk about your insecurities to them, since they are the ones who will understand you the most.
Women are constantly occupied, either being at work or raising their kids, and are not able to meet up with old friends as a result. But what people need to remember is that their partner is also their friend. You should find time to do fun things together to keep the romance blossoming. Spending quality time with your partner is yet another form of a love language – happy couples have fun and enjoy each other’s company. It’s the perfect chance to know each other even better than before, and still have fun while you’re at it.
Romance is not this hard-to-understand concept, and can be easily given to the woman in your life through small gestures. Doing these things on a constant basis is sure to add a little romance into your relationship.